I realized something painful recently: the reason I didn’t get that job I could have had was my choice — and also something I had no choice in. I chose to stay on a three-ten schedule (30 hours a week) so I could be present for my newborn and my four-year-old. The job required MondayContinue reading “When Work Measures You by Availability vs. Ability”
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The Hidden Emptiness of a Full Life
Today I just feel like crying. It’s not hormones — my period ended a week ago. It’s not that anything is wrong. I have two beautiful boys, a husband who loves me, a flexible job, and a comfortable home. By every measure, I should feel grateful and fulfilled. But instead, I feel tired, overwhelmed, andContinue reading “The Hidden Emptiness of a Full Life”
No Love in Corporate America
I normally don’t write like this, but therapy, here goes: I have worked for my company for 8 years. Getting a foot in the door at this Bank was a huge answer to prayer. I was so grateful to my manager for taking a chance on me. In doing so, I found a job IContinue reading “No Love in Corporate America”